Marriage Divorce Partner Family Am i Right or Wrong?

Im a very straightforward person who doesnt play games or keep anyone hanging but everyone around me be it my family or my partner or relatives are just the opposite.They play games,keep me hanging over things,want things to be done but wont do anything in return.When i set boundaries my mother says i get upset easily i will ruin my marriage my partner & i will live like strangers i will have health problems noone wants to stop playing games lie keep me hanging without boundaries..